Such is life. I haven’t written anything in a while. In this short span of time my husband and I have reconciled, I’ve started anti-depressants (I have looong been a holdout in this area), and I’ve made some more positive changes in my life. Things have gotten better all around. Immense growth has happened here and there’s still a long way to go on both our parts, but I think we are on the right track.
On the financial front things are not so rosy. Lawyer bills, loans we took out and trying to re-finance our home has taken its toll on the bank accounts. Now more than ever our mettle will be tested in the face of this very real, very debilitating type of stress. So far we are holding our own.
As a couple we are stronger. As individuals we have grown a lot as well. Very important. As emotionally turbulent and stressful as the time apart really was, in the end it gave us both much needed perspective. Onward!